7 Positive Parenting Principles

Please take the following principles to heart. If you’re a parent I already know that you want what is best for your child but being that you are a parent I know it’s not as easy as it seems. Parenting has it’s highs and lows and some days you may find yourself wondering if you’re doing your best job. Here are seven principles for powerful and purposeful parenting.

  1. Value discipleship over discipline. Yes children need to be corrected when they are being disrespectful or unruly and that is where effective discipline is required. However, too many children have not been intentionally taught the values and virtues needed to succeed. Discipleship provides an opportunity to model and guide your children to righteous living.
  2. Parents are children’s first teacher. You have the opportunity to lay the foundation and set the standard. What are you doing with that responsibility? I hear many parents complain that the schools aren’t doing enough for their children but it’s mom and dad who make the difference.
  3. What you do in the early years determines the outcomes for later years. Kids are sponges in the first few years, give them good things to soak up! A solid well rounded experiences in education, social experiences, and life skills are critical. Don’t omit the filling up of these years or you’re going to have a problem come middle school and high school years.
  4. Aim for the moon and you’ll reach the stars. No matter what always aim high in your expectations, standards, goals, and vision for your family. Constantly praise your children for what is going right because it will continue to propel them higher and higher.
  5. Content creates character. What they are exposed to will show up in their lives. Diversify the books, magazines, music, TV shows, video games and activities that you’re children are seeing. Watch and get involved with the programs. Just because it says it’s for kids doesn’t mean it’s in alignment with your vision for your family.
  6. Children spell T-I-M-E with L-O-V-E. The best course of parenting just comes from spending time, being involved, showing up, being present, and listening. Sometimes our kids are “talking” to us just by the things they aren’t saying. Seize every opportunity to show your love.
  7. Every child is different even in the same household, with the same exposure and resources. Value their individuality. In our family mission it states that each child is a part of the same body. Each person is essential for one function. Help your children see that they are needed, valued, and appreciated for being just who they are and who they are becoming.

 

 

Five Must Have Books for Women’s History Month

It’s Women’s History Month and it’s a wonderful time to focus in on the strong and smart women who have lead and made a difference in our world. Exposure to this history for all children provides an opportunity for inspiration, education, and enlightenment. Having a diverse bookshelf is extremely important to our family and I hope that you make it a priority for yours as well.

She Persisted: 13 American Women Who Changed the World

Chelsea Clinton introduces tiny feminists, mini activists and little kids who are ready to take on the world to thirteen inspirational women who never took no for an answer, and who always, inevitably and without fail, persisted.

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Free Webinar This Week on Empowerment

Join me Thursday March 15, 2018 at 9:00 pm EST for the Four Principles of Empowerment.

The Four Principles of Empowerment Webinar focuses on your gift to empower others! We will explore what these four principles call for to ensure that no matter what environment you find yourself in you can operate in your gifting with intention!

This webinar is for anyone who seeks to sharpen their gifts, have the ability to change their atmosphere at home or work, is tired of hearing or seeing others operate at less than their best and wants to better encourage them, parents who wish to elevate their children or spouses looking to encourage their spouse.

This is one you don’t want to miss! Be sure to stay until the end as I have a free gift I’ll be giving away.


Believe Bigger (Howard Books, 2018)

As your Chief Cultivator I HIGHLY recommend this book and Marshawn’s message of #believebigger. One mission we are all on is to be fully used in this lifetime and to utilize the gifts and talents we have been given. There is no greater voice I support on this journey than Marshawn’s. She is a POWERHOUSE when it comes to this purpose journey! Be sure to pre-order your copy today by clicking on the photo or title above. I will be hosting a special book club next month and you’re going to want your copy in hand when it releases on March 13th!

XOXO, Regina

Reinvention strategist Marshawn Evans Daniels delivers a practical and inspirational guide for women ready to reclaim their lives and discover a higher purpose after experiencing regret and disappointment—demonstrating that through disruption, life can become sweeter than ever imagined.

Marshawn thought she was on the right path. She was an accomplished business woman and high-powered sports attorney ready to marry the man of her dreams—until she learned just days before a fairytale wedding that he was cheating on her. After betrayal flipped her seemingly perfect world upside down, she found herself craving significance, not just success.

Believe Bigger is about resilience, reclaiming your life, and how God uses rejection, hardship, and unexpected circumstances to awaken something greater within…if you’re willing to embrace disruption. You’ll see her go from heartbroken and hitting rock bottom financially, to building a multi-million dollar faith-centered enterprise, and finding something super sweet along the way. Calling. Marshawn shares what it takes to turn pain into purpose and your mess into a larger message and life mission.

Whether you are drowning in self-doubt and regret, feeling stuck, or sensing a shift but unable to discern what’s next, Marshawn’s Purpose Map outlining the 5 Stages of Divine Reinvention, will give you insight into your true gifts and calling—and the courage to pursue them. You’ll see that difficulties are not designed to devastate you, but to ignite the bigger dreams, life, love, and abundance you were destined for all along.

Believe Bigger: Discover the Path to Your Life Purpose

How to Start A Youth Mentoring Program

An Online Workshop

Would you like to start your own youth mentoring program?

Mastering Mentoring Mini Workshop covers:

  • Program Plan and Design
  • Recruitment
  • Screening
  • Training
  • Matching
  • Monitoring
  • Maintaining and Funding the Program

Tons of people are eager to tap into their passion, share their expertise and impact their communities by starting youth mentoring programs. Are you one of them?

Now is the time! Start your program and make a difference in your community. Sign up for the workshop here: http://reginacoley.com/master-mentoring-mini-workshop/

Ready to REALLY invest in your program? Check out our 12 week Masterclass. For full details visit http://reginacoley.com/called-to-cultivate 

 

 

[Training] Transitioning from Talented Teacher to EntreLeader

A video from the Called to Cultivate Community

In this video I will share with you several ways to use your transferable skills a teacher and apply them to entrepreneurship. This video is great for teachers who are looking to start businesses to supplement their income or to transition out of the classroom completely.

To join our community visit reginacoley.com/community for additional resources, training, and guidance.

How to use templates for your children to accomplish more in less time

Templates are great productivity tools for adults and entrepreneurs alike. When we use them we can organize our thoughts and accomplish goals faster. When you teach children to utilize these tools early in life they have a way to organize their thoughts, ideas, and days as well.

The templates I’m sharing with you today are the monthly goal setting calendar, weekly goal setting calendar and the test study guide. These can be used for any grade level elementary, middle school, and high school. I would suggest printing out as many copies as you need and placing them in a binder.

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The Called to Cultivate Podcast is LIVE!

I’m so excited about the next endeavor for providing you with excellent content to live on purpose and in your purpose. The Called to Cultivate Podcast is officially now in the iTunes store and is ready for you to download! 

The podcast will release a new episode every Thursday so be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode.

This is an extension of our Called to Cultivate Community and it’s a great way to learn more about teaching and empowering others. As always I’ll be sharing more about my experiences in running a youth development/mentoring program, experiences as an Educator, and things I’m currently working on (and you can too) in your empowerment business.

You can always check out the official podcast page here to listen to episodes, download resources and episodes and get show notes.

http://reginacoley.com/called-cultivate-podcast/

Subscribe today on iTunes so each new episode goes straight to your favorite device. Leave me a positive review (I’m a teacher, I love feedback).

Happy Holidays everyone.

Regina